I am a Kink Friendly Professional Relationship Coach, Consultant Hypnotist and Energetic Healer. I have been helping people like you to understand, work thru and overcome very personal issues for over 28 years and I want to help you.

I help others create meaning and magick in their lives by partnering with them to move beyond the “shoulds” and “have to’s” of what society and our families have told is “right”.

I can help you and those you care most about to build intimate trusting alternative relationships, finding the love and connection we all deserve.

I teach Right Relationship®, how to use clear intention to create the ideal relationship that you and your partner/s desire. I teach the practice of choice and responsibility. Of being conscious and intentional in all we do, specifically in creating the life and relationships we want…and to live a live you love.

  • A relationship expert, working successfully with couples and families for over 28 years
  • A published expert in the area’s of communication, intimacy, personal relationships & Success. .
  • A 24/7 Master & Kink Friendly Presenter (see My Fetlife Profile)
  • A sought after trainer of NeuroLinguistic Programming (NLP™)
  • A leader in the field Personal Coaching, Relationship Coaching & (NLP™)
  • An ally you can count on; one that you cannot shock or surprise and who will hold what you value & desire as sacred.


Couples Communication, Human Sexuality and Intimacy, Power Exchange Dynamics, Professional Speaking & Training, Brief Solution Oriented Coaching & Therapy, NeuroLinguistic Programming, and Hypnotherapy

All coaching is by telephone and by appointment.

Introductory session free. Get a taste of what us possible for you for no charge or commitment. Jim@BDSMCoach.comcastbiz.net  

Don’t hesitate, call now: 847-748-8006

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